lydia delainey wrote:

Ican'teveeeen wrote:

Ok I thought the story was the MIL called a friend of hers to pick her up but the friend was at lunch and told her she couldn't, Didn't the MIL tell T she wasn't going to be friends with the woman anymore? Who knows, she's told the story so many times it probably  changes every time.  I agree with Chanel, who in their right mind would call Taylor if you were stranded on a side of a road.

That's the version I remember too.

That's the version I heard too.
 

The wedding she was talking about was her SIL's wedding, not Andi's

FKFriday wrote:

Husbandpillow wrote:

The wedding she was talking about was her SIL's wedding, not Andi's

Thanks! I sat there mouth agape listing thinking WTF?!?!?1
 

 

Yeah I'm thinking it was the SIL wedding...same one where they photoshopped out her face from the wedding photos. Which I still can't get over. That is just horrific.

Clearly Taylor was referring to Matt when she was celebrating North Carolina's loss? (When she was saying he "deserves to cry")

Oh, I thought maybe it was Brett, but Matt def makes more sense.

What hour was the Lauren talk today?

Was the 3rd hour a repeat from yesterday?

I wonder why? That is annoying.

If you listen on demand, feel free to skip the WHOLE first hour. Taylor wants friends that tell her she's wonderful but don't demand anything from her in exchange. You're welcome.

I think if a friend told me I was a horrible friend, I would be really looking at my actions. Not blowing it off and making excuses as to why they were wrong.

I  get the whole not having to keep in touch constantly, but I don't get that totally not knowing when someone needs you. I understand if you have no idea something happened (*but does that really happen?), but even a quick text saying you're thinking of the person. How tiring to always have to be the friend reaching out.

* A friends Dad had a heart attack, and while she certainly didn't call everyone, she was with a friend when she heard and she let us all know. Same when my Grandfather passsed away, I didn't call all my friends. My Mom had posted something on FB though, friends saw it and called right away. It just blows me away that it wouldn't occur to you to reach out without being asked?

I obviously don't agree with him, but why is she getting so worked up about that guys phone call, (re: sexual assault) when she basically has made the same shitty argument about Erin Andrews?? She keeps insisting either EA was in on it, or making the best of it so she can make $$ off the situation. Is that not the same victim shaming mentality as "look what she's wearing, she asked for it? Ugh, she's so hypocritical, it's astounding.

So obviously no is ever asking to be raped, ever, regardless of what they're wearing and how much they are drinking, etc. However, the good point that the mother who called in had (and was completely ignored) is that in order to attempt to be safe in any situation where are vulnerable, *you* need to take accountability for your own safety/well-being by not getting black-out drunk. You cannot trust that there are not going to be predators who are going to take advantage of people in vulnerable positions. There's never going to be a world where people are 100% safe, 100% of the time. Some things are just good, common sense. Of course, rape should NEVER happen, murder should NEVER happen, crimes of any sort should never happen, but do your due diligence to ensure that you are protecting yourself by drinking responsibly. That's not "blaming the victim", that's common sense.

Last edited by Husbandpillow (4/08/2016 11:03 am)

AK wrote:

It's almost a false safety that if you don't party alone or get drunk that then you wont get raped. 

I think you can certainly help your odds though. I've been at bars were women get trashed and take off with a whole band when the bar closes. Hopefully nothing happens, but you should never put your self in a situation like that.
 

Wakeupfan420 wrote:

youcaaango wrote:

If you listen on demand, feel free to skip the WHOLE first hour. Taylor wants friends that tell her she's wonderful but don't demand anything from her in exchange. You're welcome.

 
Thanks girl!! 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Why always so many excuses for being a shitty friend??
I don't want that negativity to start my weekend!

Happy Friday chicas!!! 💕💕💕

 
I know right!?! The amount of excuses...She basically wants to treat her best friends as aquatinances. She was saying that she will be there if her friends tell her that something happened (extreme emphasis on IF they tell her). Now I don't need to be in contact with my best friends everyday, but I'm doing more than just being there for big stuff. I do want to know in general what's going on in their life. And sometimes you don't want to reach out when bad things happen(like another person said here) she doesn't realize that her friends want her to want to be friends with them, not to beg her.

I had my jaw dropped at the things she said the entire conversation. But I don't want to make my post super long lol

Jane Bleeb wrote:

Omg I could not stand Taylor today. Wtf. Her incessant rambling!!!!!!!! It was horrible. She didn't make sense half the time and is so entitled and doesn't take responsibility for her actions. Plus she never lets anyone talk. Geesus. Shut up and listen once in a while. I am dealing with my own friendship problems but I see a therapist because I know it's about ME. It's my problem not everyone else's. I'm the common denominator no? With Taylor she doesn't think this for a second. It's always someone else's fault.i can't listen to her anymore.

She even said she knows she flakes on people all the time, but why would anyone call her a bad friend?  Like the 2 aren't in the least bit related.