Have you guys listened to this weeks TOT podcast yet? New content, not replayed clip from last week.. it just seemed kinda all over the place for me. Idk something seemed off

I’ve never listened to TOT. However, I came to make two observations.
1. I really like that Darren girl. She loves to challenge Taylor and calls it as she sees it. Finally...a non-ass kissing co-host. I wish she could be on all of the time.

2. Speaking of the Darren co-host show, I thought Taylor was especially awful that day. I mean, she went in for some low blows like when singling out Alpine, NJ and specifying “that’s where my in-laws are from” as the place where the rudest/worst people are from and usual “let’s tell the poop speckle in the toilet story about Brett because I am a perfect human being and did no wrong.” And she certainly made Babs’ French family from Ft Lauderdale sound rich and uppity when describing them!

I wish I could remember the others (my brain is fried...I know there was an over-abundance of ‘my dad is a doctor’ mentions) but I just know she seemed way over the top in her vapidness. 😳😬

How bout when Taylor talked (once again) about summer house to Daryn yesterday, Taylor said “i know I probably came across desperate” and Daryn said- “let’s be honest, This wasn’t the only time you come across desperate” lol
Or something along that line.
I love that Daryn puts her in her place

FKCSTMom wrote:

I’ve never listened to TOT. However, I came to make two observations.
1. I really like that Darren girl. She loves to challenge Taylor and calls it as she sees it. Finally...a non-ass kissing co-host. I wish she could be on all of the time.

2. Speaking of the Darren co-host show, I thought Taylor was especially awful that day. I mean, she went in for some low blows like when singling out Alpine, NJ and specifying “that’s where my in-laws are from” as the place where the rudest/worst people are from and usual “let’s tell the poop speckle in the toilet story about Brett because I am a perfect human being and did no wrong.” And she certainly made Babs’ French family from Ft Lauderdale sound rich and uppity when describing them!

I wish I could remember the others (my brain is fried...I know there was an over-abundance of ‘my dad is a doctor’ mentions) but I just know she seemed way over the top in her vapidness. 😳😬

If I didn't have such a distinctive voice, I would subscribe to the show, call in and seriously confront her about why she cannot let her former in-laws go.  Even if she bullshitted her way through a non-answer, I want someone to be 100% straight with her and watch her fumble.  She needs some therapy.  

Yes, totally caught that as well. I was thinking that I was pretty certain I remembered Tay saying previously that Brett had sent a message saying how brave she was for coming out on the show.

lydia delainey wrote:

Idk if anyone else caught it, but on Tuesday's show with Emma, I caught  that Taylor insinuated that she believed Brett might be gay. She said that one of her "ex boyfriends" used to go on guys trips without her, and did guy things(I'm thinking skiing and golf) when she got together with TD, he sent her a message saying that coming out took a lot of courage. She said that she thought that only someone that had been there (identified as gay) would understand that. She then quickly said, that Brett also sent her a message saying that if she was happy, he was happy for her. I'm sure that she said that just to make it seem like the "ex bf" was someone else. What other ex is she on speaking terms with, who would have reached out to her?The only other ex she speaks of(with the Polish Mother), later in the conversation she said that she heard through the grapevine that he had a hard time when he heard that she was with a woman(as in he didn't send her a positive congratulatory message). Also, what other ex went on guys trips without her and and did guy things? I'm pretty sure that I heard her hint before that Brett might be gay. Did anyone else catch this?

 
As soon as she started talking about the “ex-BF who went on a lot of guy trips without her” I thought she was talking about Brett too!! And then she kept on and on with the story, which got more interesting. I can’t believe she doesn’t think the listeners won’t remember all the stuff she constantly repeats day in and day out...enough that we can figure out who she is talking about even if she thinks she’s being sooooo tricky by calling someone a “BF” instead of that dumb “wasband” name she always uses.

So here’s my question...why the hell would she say that?? Do you think she believes he really is gay?

FKCSTMom wrote:

lydia delainey wrote:

Idk if anyone else caught it, but on Tuesday's show with Emma, I caught  that Taylor insinuated that she believed Brett might be gay. She said that one of her "ex boyfriends" used to go on guys trips without her, and did guy things(I'm thinking skiing and golf) when she got together with TD, he sent her a message saying that coming out took a lot of courage. She said that she thought that only someone that had been there (identified as gay) would understand that. She then quickly said, that Brett also sent her a message saying that if she was happy, he was happy for her. I'm sure that she said that just to make it seem like the "ex bf" was someone else. What other ex is she on speaking terms with, who would have reached out to her?The only other ex she speaks of(with the Polish Mother), later in the conversation she said that she heard through the grapevine that he had a hard time when he heard that she was with a woman(as in he didn't send her a positive congratulatory message). Also, what other ex went on guys trips without her and and did guy things? I'm pretty sure that I heard her hint before that Brett might be gay. Did anyone else catch this?

 
As soon as she started talking about the “ex-BF who went on a lot of guy trips without her” I thought she was talking about Brett too!! And then she kept on and on with the story, which got more interesting. I can’t believe she doesn’t think the listeners won’t remember all the stuff she constantly repeats day in and day out...enough that we can figure out who she is talking about even if she thinks she’s being sooooo tricky by calling someone a “BF” instead of that dumb “wasband” name she always uses.

So here’s my question...why the hell would she say that?? Do you think she believes he really is gay?

 
I have no idea if she thinks Brett is gay or not- but could she just leave the poor guy alone now? Stop talking about him, let him move on with his life and stop gossiping about him, Taylor. It's bad enough that he probably knows at this point she married him when she didn't really love him- now she is speculating that he's gay. Is she trying to ruin his life? After the photo conversation yesterday it's clear she is not over him as much as she says, but what is her end game for continuing to slam him. I feel bad for him, I wish she would just move on from discussing him all the time, it's just getting meaner and meaner on her part.

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I don’t think she’s playing gay for her career, but I also don’t think she’ll date another women if TD doesn’t work out. I think she’s genuinely just unhealthily obsessed and loves TD. Where that will get them in like idk? But let’s hope they figure it out before They have kids or TD is to old to have a child.

piopio12 wrote:

I don’t think she’s playing gay for her career, but I also don’t think she’ll date another women if TD doesn’t work out. I think she’s genuinely just unhealthily obsessed and loves TD. Where that will get them in like idk? But let’s hope they figure it out before They have kids or TD is to old to have a child.

 

Agree with this, I really do think she loves her. I hope they can make it work!

They seem really in love to me. There's no way that their relationship is disingenuous, but if Taylor doesn't move on from her past, she is going to sabotage a great thing.

Just a thought... I once dated a guy who was insanely insecure, jealous, obsessive. Talked about his ex all the time, never could let anything go. When something happened it was always someone else's fault. Carried grudges. Couldn't take it if anyone complimented me or paid me attention; would get in fights with people easily, even physical fights. He was abusive and a nightmare to date. (Does any of this sound familiar to anyone???)  Listening to Taylor this week, I realized she is just like he was in my relationship. Just because she is a woman it doesn't mean the way she is in relationships isn't borderline abusive, especially with the constant insecurity and obsession with being with TD all the time. I was the TD- always tried to be sweet, reassuring, gave up what I wanted to make him happy so that I wouldn't have to fight with him. So you are absolutely right, BethosGirl- she needs some serious help before she can have a healthy relationship. Because it doesn't sound like this one is all that healthy for TD..... 

Sirius109 wrote:

And don’t forget this is TD’s first “real” relationship. I don’t doubt that they are in love. But I hope for TD’s sake they do get help. The kid thing is too big of an issue to not deal with. TD seems so sweet and it sounds like she will be an amazing mother. It’s not fair to her to not be with someone who would be in 100%.

Absolutely! And that is weird that you mention the marriage thing- that is another parallel to my bad ex. The man was totally phobic of marriage and kids. He knocked up his high school girlfriend, got pressured to marry her and it lasted for a year before they divorced. So he was a young divorcee with a small child when I met him- and he made it clear he was never getting married and having more kids. Which at 20 years old I wasn't concerned about but as the relationship got more serious I started to think that- abusive behavior aside- why would I waste time with someone who didn't have the same life goals that I did? So even he hadn't been a mean, controlling asshole we were doomed from the start....I would have had to give up what I wanted because he was not going to bend on what he wanted. I'm worried that will happen to TD, too, and that is not fair. 
 

Not sure if it was Brett, sounded like it could of been, but at that point in her life they were 💯 close enough for her to visit in the hospital.