Karma wrote:

Ha, funny! I actually really love this pic of Taylor- she looks really pretty here! And her *gasp* arms are showing!! She is just simply not the hideous chubby sack of ugly she thinks she is!
 

Hawr-rible wrote:

Karma wrote:

Ha, funny! I actually really love this pic of Taylor- she looks really pretty here! And her *gasp* arms are showing!! She is just simply not the hideous chubby sack of ugly she thinks she is!
 

 
I was just thinking the same thing...she looks GREAT in this pic. I wish she would recognize how pretty she is. She has beautiful eyes, I love her dimple (I have dimple envy), and so much potential with her hair (if she got the right haircut, I think she’d realize it would be life-changing for her!). But instead she body-shames herself constantly and the first thing she notices about EVERY woman is her body size.

Case in point: Her story about the RHONY party when she talked about Carole Radziwill. Her first sentence, “I just love her body. It is so teeny tiny and is perfect. It is what I want. She has the Carrie Bradshaw body.” (Totally paraphrasing all of this but you get the idea!) THEN she talked about how she was a loner at the party.

Karma wrote:

I just died!!!!!!!!!!!! 

Since it’s been quiet on here and not everyone is on FB, I’ll carry over a topic (related/not related) from there that bugged me from yesterday’s show.
1. What are your thoughts on Taylor deciding to finally “share” her Sancerre with TD after all these years? (She said TD has no taste so she’s been drinking the wine they cook with every night. She also said she drinks a half a bottle of wine nightly...on the nights at home.)

2. What are your thoughts on her little discussion about why she HAS to always be the one who picks the (fill in the blank) first? Whether it’s the piece of pizza, pork chop, piece of sushi...you name it...because of her OCD, she HAS to be able to choose first. And people who don’t understand that just are wrong and don’t understand her (Brett was one of those people). She doesn’t understand what the big deal is because usually the pieces are EXACTLY THE SAME. It’s just in her mind and she HAS GOT TO GO FIRST AND GET THE ONE SHE WANTS (for a variety of reasons. Like with pizza, it’s the bubbles on top, ratio of crust to cheese, etc.).

Your thoughts?

Bonus question:
3. What did you think when Taylor said she didn’t like that a girl was flirting with her at GWNJ’s party, but “TBH, she really wanted men to flirt with her?”

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Yeah, I just can't with both of those concepts- I could never imagine treating my husband that way. Anything I have he is welcome to because I love him and think he deserves just as much as I do, whether it's the "good wine" or the best piece of food. It would never even occur to me not to share my favorite things with him. It's just self centered and mean what she does to TD.

Hawr-rible wrote:

And I loved when Sean called her out and suggested she just give TD dog food while she is at it, lmao! Because seriously....

And then she said that was a GREAT analogy!  I thought, do you know what you are even saying???
She doesn't share much about her life with Taylor but when she does I understand why she doesn't.  Her telling TD not to watch QVC because she doesn't want it be 'a thing' they do, not sharing her wine, making TD feel like she has to apologize because she DARED to get sick on a Friday instead of a weeknight (THAT MONSTER), and then only making it about how sheeeeee is very likely to get sick.  She was just prepping the audience for her calling in sick one day very very soon.  Blaming her excessive drinking on TD traveling for work. Saying she likes the idea of being together for 6 years before getting engaged, knowing TD wants it soon. 
How can she think this is OK behavior?   

PRECISELY wrote:

Hawr-rible wrote:

And I loved when Sean called her out and suggested she just give TD dog food while she is at it, lmao! Because seriously....

And then she said that was a GREAT analogy!  I thought, do you know what you are even saying???
She doesn't share much about her life with Taylor but when she does I understand why she doesn't.  Her telling TD not to watch QVC because she doesn't want it be 'a thing' they do, not sharing her wine, making TD feel like she has to apologize because she DARED to get sick on a Friday instead of a weeknight (THAT MONSTER), and then only making it about how sheeeeee is very likely to get sick.  She was just prepping the audience for her calling in sick one day very very soon.  Blaming her excessive drinking on TD traveling for work. Saying she likes the idea of being together for 6 years before getting engaged, knowing TD wants it soon. 
How can she think this is OK behavior?   

 
I’m beginning to think she’s actually a type of abuser like someone on here recently pointed out. Controlling is just the start of it...

FKCSTMom wrote:

Since it’s been quiet on here and not everyone is on FB, I’ll carry over a topic (related/not related) from there that bugged me from yesterday’s show.
1. What are your thoughts on Taylor deciding to finally “share” her Sancerre with TD after all these years? (She said TD has no taste so she’s been drinking the wine they cook with every night. She also said she drinks a half a bottle of wine nightly...on the nights at home.)

2. What are your thoughts on her little discussion about why she HAS to always be the one who picks the (fill in the blank) first? Whether it’s the piece of pizza, pork chop, piece of sushi...you name it...because of her OCD, she HAS to be able to choose first. And people who don’t understand that just are wrong and don’t understand her (Brett was one of those people). She doesn’t understand what the big deal is because usually the pieces are EXACTLY THE SAME. It’s just in her mind and she HAS GOT TO GO FIRST AND GET THE ONE SHE WANTS (for a variety of reasons. Like with pizza, it’s the bubbles on top, ratio of crust to cheese, etc.).

Your thoughts?

Bonus question:
3. What did you think when Taylor said she didn’t like that a girl was flirting with her at GWNJ’s party, but “TBH, she really wanted men to flirt with her?”

I haven't gotten to the Sancerre part of yesterday's episode yet, but I will say, I don't share my occasional wines/champs with my boyfriend either bc he prefers beer, and I drink a Sancerre, a Sancerre Rose or Vueve Rose and that shit's expensive lol. He doesn't even like it, so why would I share it with him and waste it? BUT, I drink only occasionally and he doesn't express interest. If TD was expressing interest in it and TS was saying no, that would be awful, as often as TS is drinking it. 1/2 bottle a night is not the worst, that's basically 2 glasses. The only reason I drink only occasionally, is that I watch my calories. When I didn't used to count calories, I would often have 1-2 drinks with dinner.

 

lydia delainey wrote:

I was disgusted by her entitlement and selfishness. Who behaves like that, and then proudly brags about it on air? The way she just expects others to abide by her "rule" that she always gets the "best" piece of food. Who acts like that? I always wonder when her Mom listens, what does she think. Can she actually be proud of having raised such a selfish, spoiled brat?

That's funny you say that.  I wonder if her mom thinks all this is OK, as well.   I know we are all jealous, but this kind of selfishness is sick. 
May I please reiterate that TD felt the need to APOLOGIZE for getting sick on a Friday night?????? May I also add, what difference does it really make if she was sick.  All they do is order food and watch t.v.   

DaisyDeadPetals wrote:

I haven't gotten to the Sancerre part of yesterday's episode yet, but I will say, I don't share my occasional wines/champs with my boyfriend either bc he prefers beer, and I drink a Sancerre, a Sancerre Rose or Vueve Rose and that shit's expensive lol. He doesn't even like it, so why would I share it with him and waste it? BUT, I drink only occasionally and he doesn't express interest. If TD was expressing interest in it and TS was saying no, that would be awful, as often as TS is drinking it. 1/2 bottle a night is not the worst, that's basically 2 glasses. The only reason I drink only occasionally, is that I watch my calories. When I didn't used to count calories, I would often have 1-2 drinks with dinner.

 

I agree! 
I have 1-2 glasses (at least) more nights than not. If that is the worst then I am terrible!
 

I don't think the wine thing is bad.  But she seems to not be able to do anything without alcohol.  When she was doing that surprise me question about a family vacation and the woman was worried about her in laws not letting her drink, Taylor's rant was about getting drunk with her siblings and how she couldn't imagine vacation without drinking and her WEEKENDS are for drinking.  Its just a lot, I think.  Then it leads back to her wanting to lose weight and doing nothing to try except complain.  I used to have a joke that as long as I went to the gym and stood around it, I could lose weight.  Just a mind over matter thing, just believe being in the gym would be what caused my wight loss.  But I was only joking.  I would actually work out.  And she thinks because she is 'self-aware' enough to know she is one the those annoying people that complains about her wight but does nothing about it, its OK.  It's not, its still annoying.
One last thing, she was saying the other day about how listeners were begging her to stop wearing "Yellow Outfit" all the time.  I truly wonder where/how she gets her listener feedback.  She doesn't interact on social media, her Instagram seems to be mostly BB and very very very few 'trolls', and it seems like she juuuuuuust started reading emails.    

Her using money to justify things, i.e. "I make more money and can afford Sancerre; ergo I deserve better than what my partner gets" is actually a form of financial abuse. Picture it as a man doing that to a woman he was dating- no one would think that was ok. What if Brett had done that to her? If he allowed himself a fancy glass of wine at a dinner out, but told Taylor she could only have a lesser wine because he makes more money. She would think he was a monster- and rightly so. So why on Earth has she thought that has been fine to do to her girlfriend? (Ok, I'll take off my domestic violence counselor nerd glasses now, and stop harping....)

BathiesTime...you hit the nail on the head!! It has to be detrimental. 

I need to call and thank my mom. She was a stay-at-home mom living in the deep south in the 70's but she encouraged my sisters and I to go to college and have careers. We were never expected to get an Mrs or rely on a man to be the breadwinner.  

I always want to believe that she's embellishing some for the radio.

Hawr-rible wrote:

Yeah, I just can't with both of those concepts- I could never imagine treating my husband that way. Anything I have he is welcome to because I love him and think he deserves just as much as I do, whether it's the "good wine" or the best piece of food. It would never even occur to me not to share my favorite things with him. It's just self centered and mean what she does to TD.

 
I really don't understand TD's side of the relationship. Why is she with Taylor? Taylor is a self-centered narcissistic brat.