FKFriday wrote:

Listening to Taylor go on about Lady Gaga again, she is shrieking she’s so worked up! I think someone is a little jelly pot of TDs work girlfriend and she’s venting through this....

And she just brought up Chris Evans after TD asked her specifically not to. Shits going down on Taylor Land!

March really stuck in my head as the 1-yr mark/ultimatum and it is rapidly approaching. And honestly, I can’t blame TD. It’s been four years, 💩 or get off the 🚽.
 

I see TD walking out

ChanelBag wrote:

Ok so what’s with Carly not coming on but being on other podcasts. I saw in one of the groups ppl talking about it. I agree with them and think something happened

 
I’ve often wondered about that too. Plus the explicit NOT mentioning of anything about TTSS during any of the Secret Keepers podcasts seems a bit off. I fully understand not talking about it constantly, but for two people who had shared experiences and some crazy ones on that show, you would think it might have come up just once. It’s almost like it’s “off limits” to mention it/her. I’ve never even heard her name on there. Weird.

I honestly cannot believe that their relationship even lasted this long. 

For sure a guy!

Hawr-rible wrote:

Heygirlhey2006 wrote:

I see TD walking out

Honestly, it's time. They want completely different lives and it's time to call it a day. Loving someone isn't enough if you literally are never on the same page about anything, and these two never are. They can't even agree on a vacation, let alone the rest of their lives.
 

Sad to say, I think it is too. It will be the same concept in this relationship as with BE: "What made him happy made me miserable, and what made me happy made him uncomfortable." This is the same trend in the current relationship with vacations, not to mention STARTING A FAMILY. Sometimes negotiation/compromise isn't the right answer—having a kid when you clearly don't want one, or being limited to only one when you want multiple? Would either of them really be happy with that arrangement? I don't have kids, but that doesn't seem like something that "both people should walk away from feeling a little bit like they lost."

I don't think anyone would ever wish heartbreak on another person (at least, I would hope not), but sometimes prolonging the inevitable just makes the imminent heartbreak that much worse. 

Ooh! Editing to add: If the relationship did come to an end, how much time do you think TS would take off from work? Do you think she would continue the show? Part of me feels like she would either take a long hiatus (which is fair. Heartbreak is excruciating and you have to do what's right for you), or possibly even cancel the show :-/ (though it's obviously her source of income, so 🤷‍♀️)

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I think Taylor would continue the show because A) she has no choice, its literally her only job and B) she actually doesn't talk about TD/their relationship that much, so its not like content would suffer. She's still talking about the E's and I'm certain that will never change. If she didn't stop doing a show when she got divorced, she's not going to now.

And taking a day or two off to collect yourself if you must is fine, but a "long hiatus" would be ridiculous. Literally no one gets to miss work for weeks because of a breakup. Shit happens and sometimes being an adult means bootstrapping your way through bad situations.

Heygirlhey2006 wrote:

And I may be wrong but I don’t feel like TS ever processed/took the time to heal from her divorce because she jumped into a relationship so soon.

 
TS was already in a relationship with TD before the divorce. Timeline of when things went down with Brett, she had already emotionally attached herself to TD. There was overlap. For sure.

SympathyRoids wrote:

Heygirlhey2006 wrote:

And I may be wrong but I don’t feel like TS ever processed/took the time to heal from her divorce because she jumped into a relationship so soon.

 
TS was already in a relationship with TD before the divorce. Timeline of when things went down with Brett, she had already emotionally attached herself to TD. There was overlap. For sure.

I would entertain the notion that there could have been some emotional infidelity between TS and TD.

FKFriday wrote:

The BBs would be all for her taking months off and still paying for the subscription to be supportive of "Their Girl!" 

I was thinking about this last night after all the bitching about Gaga which I'm still sure is tied into her relationship. The fact that she can't even compromise for Christmas is kind of a biggie, and that would piss me off if I were TD. Taylor has always said Thanksgiving is the big thing for her family, not Christmas, I think they've even gone away for a bunch? Paige is splitting holidays and was miserable over Thanksgiving. Everyone go to Streckers from Thanksgiving, Paige can spend Christmas with the inlaws, Streckers can go away, and Taylor can spend it with TD. They have little kids, I thinks that's pretty important to her, so let her have it. Its so weird that they just can't find middle ground in this. 

The holidays thing was a big deal, and a big red flag. And then attacking TD for getting sick on "their" Christmas. That whole situation was uneasy to hear about. Nothing about that situation alone spells time for marriage, on top of everything else.
 

IMO it would be in TS and TD’s best interests to break up. The relationship is incredibly unhealthy and borders on abusive. Also TS clearly has a substance issue with alcohol and her medicine that she “has to have” and TD is an enabler. If the relationship hasn’t gotten physical yet it’s definitely on the path to.

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piopio12 wrote:

 
I don’t think she’s a cheater. I think her and Brett had divorced mentally long before the paperwork was filed. And she certainly didn’t leave Brett for TD.

I don't think she did either. I believe her about the way it happened, I think the time line is little earlier then she pretends. Which I get, dealing with those feelings must have been insane and probably why it was such an intense friendship from the beginning, she was feeling romantic, but didn't identify it as that from the get go. 
 

I like him too but something has changed with him. I think he was more into this gig when he didn’t have a job.

Today’s show was so cringeworthy. Yeesh! Taylor was so unbelievably cunty towards Matt and it was so annoying and frustrating to listen to. Something is going on with her and TD no doubt and she is taking it out on the hosts even more than usual.

Heygirlhey2006 wrote:

So if TS and TD do breakup will we have to hear “when I was a lesbian”?

When I was rich...
When I was married...

Oh god..... you're right. It will be another exhausting "When I Was...." topic. Kill us all.