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Friendships... According to Taylor
During yesterday's show, Tay was talking about friendships and stated Babette told her not to have groups of friends because they are too dangerous ("majority rules"). She said she's not afraid to cut people out but she doesn't want to burn bridges because she's done that in the past. She's choosing to put these people on pause. She said present day, she has a group of friends that make her so happy. From the looks of Insta, it's the D sisters. Still a group. So, I guess Babette's advice is good when it applies to ICHoes, but not D sisters.
Babette's advice really bothers me. What mom tells her young daughter not to be in a group friendship? Oh, yeah... Same mom that tells her daughter that everyone is jealous of her.
Side note- when I was typing daughter above it autocorrected to daily hater. Lol. Appropriate.
- Kicked_off_the_trampoline
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Yeah I think women who can't hang in groups are just trouble. I have a close group of women friends and we never deal with any of the shit Taylor always seems to be getting into with her friends.
- youcaaango
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Taylor seems to be the common denominator in all these friend breakups - meaning, the groups all stay together and she moves on to another group. But yes, everyone is just jealous.
I swear, I've been friends with the same group for 20 years and we've never had a shouting argument in a bar or hate-tweeted each other.
- wintercici
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I've never had friends who fight the way T does either. I also didn't have a negative sorority experience. It makes me wonder if it comes down to enjoying drama and creating some if there isn't any. I also think she's gotten some messed up world views from her mom.
- FKFriday
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Same group about 15 years. There have been issues, but never to her magnitude. We can do stuff as a group, or one on one (2 friends were over for coffee Sunday and we made dinner plans for tonight. One then realized she would be working late, we offered to reschedule, no-no, you guys go, we'll figure it out better next time) and no butt hurt feelings over it!!!
- No1WiderFan
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I don't think there is a problem with having many groups, but I think there is problem when you have the same sorts of issues with each of those groups.
As a whole though, I think it's perfectly okay to have a lot of different friends if that's your style. I'm personally an introvert and prefer more intimate groups, but that's not what everyone needs in their relationships.
- piopio12
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IMO, I think Taylor exaggerates for the show, which then does lead to real problems with her friends. I also think that her friends shouldn't get upset with her leaning on another group of friends post divorce. She went through a major life change, girls not allowed to grieve and heal how she wants to without her friends getting upset?